This guide discusses what happens when someone starts a custody or visitation case, and the parents do not live in the same county or state.
Custody, Visitation & Jurisdiction
What is jurisdiction?
Jurisdiction (joor-is-DIK-shuhn) is having control over something.
What does it mean for a court to have jurisdiction?
When a court has jurisdiction, it has the power to make decisions in a particular case.
What court do I go to for a custody or visitation case?
In New York State, you can go to Family Court or Supreme Court.
Usually the cases begin in Family Court unless the parties in the case are parents who are getting a divorce. Divorce cases are heard in Supreme Court.
If I’m not getting a divorce, can I go to any Family Court about my custody or visitation case?
No. There are jurisdiction rules that say which court can decide a case. One rule involves where the child lives. There is also a rule about what happens if a court has already made a decision about custody or visitation
Why is it important where my child lives?
What is the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act?
The Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA), is the law that says what a “home state” is. The UCCJEA was created to try to make it easier to figure out which state gets to make a decision in an interstate case. Interstate means that more than one state is involved.
Does the “home state” rule also affect what county I file in?
Yes. You must file in the county (in New York City, this means the borough) where the child has lived for the past six months.
Are there any exceptions to the “home state” rule?
Yes. A court in another state can sometimes get temporary emergency jurisdiction even if a child has not lived in the state for the last six months. For example, a court can get emergency jurisdiction if the child, child’s sibling, or parent of the child, is at risk of being abused.
What happens if my child is younger than 6 months?
If a child is less than 6 months old, then the child’s “home state” is the state where s/he has lived since birth. (Leaving the state for a short period of time does not change a child’s home state).
If I want to change a custody or visitation order, do I have to go back to the same court that made the order?
Can I ask for my case to be switched to a court in a different state, county, or borough?
Yes. You can ask the judge to have your case moved.
How do I ask the judge to move the case to a different location?
If you would like to have your case moved, you have to file a motion asking the judge to change the venue (VEN-yoo) of the case. A motion is a written request. Venue means the location of the case. A motion for a venue change is a written request to the court to change the location of your case.
How will the judge decide whether or not to move the case?
- Where the child now lives and how long the child has lived there;
- Where each party lives;
- The financial situations of the people involved;
- The nature and location of the evidence needed in the case (including child testimony and other witnesses); and
- Any other factors the judge thinks are important.
Can a custody or visitation case ever be started in two different states?
Yes. Sometimes one parent will start a case in one state, and the other parent will start it in a different state. If this happens, the judges from the two courts will talk to each other and decide which court should make the decision. The state that is considered the “home state” of the child will usually get to decide the case.
How do I serve my court papers on someone who lives in a different state or country?
If you know where the person is living, you have the option of contacting the local police station or sheriff’s office to see if they can help with service. Another option may be to hire a private service company. You can also ask the judge how to serve the person. For more information on service, please see the Family Legal Care guide, “Serving Court Papers.”
What is a telephonic hearing?
A telephonic (tel-uh–FON–ik) hearing is when one or both of the parties to a case are allowed to testify or appear using the telephone rather than in person.
How do I ask for a telephonic hearing?
How do I get the form?
I want to modify the custody or visitation order from my divorce. Do I have to go back to the Supreme Court or can I modify the order in Family Court?
I am sending my child to live with a relative in a different state. Do I need to get an order of custody or guardianship for the relative?
If I have a custody or visitation order, and either I or the other parent moves to a new state, will that new state enforce any orders I have from the other state?
Generally the answer is yes, as long as your order follows the rules of UCCJEA and any other relevant federal law.
Some states will require you to register the order before they will enforce it. Registering the order means having the order put into their records. To find out if you have to do this you can contact a legal services organization in the new state or you can contact the family court in the new state. They can also tell you what steps you would have to take to register the order.
You can look up legal services organizations in other states by going to www.lawhelp.org.
Please note that the information in this guide is about cases in New York State. Every state has different laws about custody and visitation.